9/17/2009

What's happening

I haven't posted in a while, and I finally feel like writing about why: I'm getting divorced. I almost can't believe it, but it's happening, and I think it's the right decision. This December will be our 21st and last anniversary.

I always thought we'd be one of those couples that was married forever...I think a lot of people who know us thought the same thing. But there were communication problems, and then infidelity, and so...it's over.

It's very weird right now. We are living together. We are still sharing the one car. We are still living very much the same way, but with these new, invisible boundaries.

9 comments:

Tracy said...

Wow, mo, totally taken aback. I'm so very sorry. You are welcome to come by anytime if you need some friendly shoulders or just drinking buddies. As Joe conveyed, he's been through a similar situation. And I'm a good, level-headed listener.

maurinsky said...

Thanks.

konagod said...

Wow. Kinda surprised, but then again, I've seen this thing happen more than once in my own land of blogs. At least 3 now that I think about it.

I'll be sending you some positive vibes.

maurinsky said...

Thanks, konagod. I was also surprised! I am still occasionally surprised! I'm mostly surprised that a man I found so interesting and thoughtful has engaged in such a cliche of a mid-life crisis.

konagod said...

I wonder what happened to the mid-life crises that only resulted in the purchase of a convertible sports car.

maurinsky said...

We don't have enough money to buy a sports car.

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